❌ I've given up on being overly ambitious. I was driving myself nuts. 😵💫
I do have a big goal, but it's a long term goal, there is no need for me to try to make it all happen overnight. I was overburdening my nervous system.
The key was to catch the way I was speaking to myself.
I used to be so harsh on myself, I would never ever speak that way to my friends or family. So why was I being so nasty to myself?
Once I started catching my own tone, how I was talking myself down and bit by bit started reducing the automatism that had crept in to beat myself up, my life changed entirely.
By being kinder to myself and managing my time and energy better:
✅ I’m calmer
✅ I build steadily
✅ I show up reliably
✅ And I actually feel good on the way
It's about the journey... isn't that how the saying goes?
Ambition isn’t the problem, it’s how we treat ourselves on the way there.
In a world that screams
😱 MORE
😱 FASTER
😱 BETTER
Guess what? Since I've started doing that, my business has been doing better too.
I'm less fearful of making a "mistake", and it helps me move forward more smoothly.
In all my workshops and individual sessions I'm constantly seeing how very very harsh we are on ourselves, and it really has to stop.
💗 How are you being good to yourself, and saving yourself from pushing yourself into overdrive?
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